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Ten Ways To Spice Up a Blowjob

Giving a blowjob is an act not every women enjoys, but giving into this emotional disgust may turn this pleasure into a selfless sexual act, as we take the feelings of our partner into account. When performed consistently, blowjobs help us to get in tune with our own sexuality, tone our face and jaw, and become self-content in our own skin. We can become a better lover by giving, learning, and sharing. One selfless act warrants the same received pleasure. Although there are tons of ways to spice up a blowjob, here are my favourite ten.

1. Clothing: Just because he is wearing clothes does not mean we have to ignore his twitching pleasures beneath. In fact, it is rather horny to lick and fondle a dick while it is still covered. Take off his trousers and rest the tongue upon his boxers. Tease him until he becomes a slave who is desperate for more.

2. Food: Use food to add a diverse sensation he will remember. The mind holds onto all sexual images, especially the memorable ones.  Ice cream, honey, angel delight, treacle, yoghurt, or whipped cream are great tools to try. Sure, it might turn the situation sticky, but perfect sex in the movies is not how it proves to be in reality.

3. Material: Drape a piece of leather, silk, velvet, fake fur, a scarf or whatever else over his penis. Tease it up and down his shaft and over his tip.

4. Tease the testicles: Use fingertip pressure on the testicles, or he if he extra-sensitive to touch, suck on them one by one and keep them wet with saliva.

5. Ice: Although the sensation is similar to ice cream, ice will not create a sticky situation, although it may create a wet one. Ice is a magical tool that can be used during foreplay and blowjobs. Running a firm ice cube over the spine while his ass is high in the air and our other hand masturbates him is a scene he will long remember. Ice will get his dick twitching and keep him on red alert for more.

6. Sex Toys: Female sex toys come in handy when giving a partner a blowjob. He may not crave a rampant rabbit stuck up his ass, but the jelly toys that lick the clit are wonderful tools to tickle over the dick and testicles. One who is into experimental play may also like the tip of the sex toy teased over the perineum and anus.

7. Perineum and ass: These areas are often avoided, but why let guilt get in the way of a connection to spiritual sex, and that is what experimenting in these areas will uncover. Running the tongue over the area situated between the testicles and anus, the perineum, will get his heart and dick pounding. Licking the ass, also known as rimming, is not a dirty, sinful act, especially if the area is well cleaned beforehand. Perform it in the shower when he least expects it. Some men enjoy a finger pushed into the ass during a blowjob. It is always better to ask before experimenting further in this area.

8. Wear lipstick. Cover the lips in a dark colour and seduce his dick. Red is always sexy. Leave it in kisses before sucking with wet, firm strokes. This will create a delicious memory that will continue to arouse him and help us to develop a wild, uninhibited side. Try a long-lasting lipstick so that even when he has a shower, it leaves a scar of kisses.

9. Enthusiasm: This is more important than any tip within this article. Without enthusiasm, his arousal will fade. Learn to love enjoying head. Give him firm eye contact while his dick fits firmly in our mouth, and smile slightly. Just the sight of his dick firmly situated between our lips, and the fact we enjoy it makes the scene memorable and hot.

10. Rid the guilt: Guilt is a negative tool that fucks with our sexuality and sacral chakra – our sexual centre situated just below the belly button. It can close us away from our experimental nature, and there is nothing wrong with exploring one’s sexuality. Many people still avoid masturbation as the emotions of guilt are held deep within the subconscious. Life is for living, and guilt is an unfortunate negativity that has been driven into our minds through the ages. Only we can unravel the pain within our mind. View sex as a friend and it will always treat us with joy.

There are lots of ways to spice up a blowjob. This article has listed ten creative ways.