GIRL WITH A DIRTY MIND

I’m not speaking for all men here, but the majority of men seek excitement from a lover in a variety of ways. If your sexual mind is not open to experimentation, it’s time to start searching within. Life is too short to continue with an unsatisfying sex life when there is so fun to discover with foreplay, oral sex, positions, and erogenous zones.

• Enthusiasm: This is not asking for a lot. Men can sense when a woman is faking her enjoyment during penetration and oral sex. This can turn a man off subconsciously. Instead, enjoy giving oral sex and view it as a way to bring ecstatic pleasure to your partner’s face. Oral sex is so enjoyable and you can tease him for as long as you want. Turn him into your little sex toy. One of my ex lovers jibed me about deep throating him. Now, I am not a fan of feeling uncomfortable during oral sex, so I refused. I’ve had no complaints about my skills. There are enough porno movies for men to watch deep throat, I think one of them is called Deep Throating. Instead, I used my oral skills to bring him to one of the most incredible orgasms of his life. He was shaking all over! Y’see, even the most gorgeous of men can be putty in a woman’s hands, but only you have the power to push him into that state. 

• Bloody Move Goddamit! Sex is a team sport and best results come from working together. If you want to get your ass and thighs in shape, you will have to put in the work. Try girl on top or reverse cowgirl. Forget about your own insecurities. Your man is not bothered about perfection; to see a woman naked is enough fun. If you hate the gym, then get a great workout through sex. Do not lie there like a sack of spuds during missionary, meet his thrusts and work your ass. Hell, I do not have a supermodel physique, but I love taking control in the bedroom, which is why I’ve had some great sexual experiences. Only one man has ever judged my figure (the deep throat obsessed guy), so I decided to give him the best head of his life and then fucked him off.. I don’t deserve that crap! I am a great lover!

• Confidence: Although we are unable to read men’s minds, I’ll bet that a confident partner is one of the first things to enter a man’s mind in his choice of lover. A woman who takes charges and is spontaneous will always keep his attention. I am not talking about gathering an array of sex toys or outfits, because these will work, but using your own mind to create a sexy scene is the cherry on the cake. Massage him with a feather until he cums (this could take some time), but sex is not there to be rushed. Build fireworks. If you love your own body, he will too. A high proportion of men do not notice imperfections. In fact, a lot of men have so much shit rolling through their minds as to whether you think he is a good lover, will he make you cum etc, so don’t fear the rest! The sight of naked flesh is enough to cause his hard on, so its time to believe in your sexiness.