I talk a lot about unconditional love, but what exactly is it? Unconditional love is when you wish the best for someone and you send good vibes to a person without wanting the same in return. This is the current path I am on through ascension, but first I have to learn to love myself unconditionally. It is difficult, especially when there is so much negativity in the world. However, I will get there because I am a secret hermit who loves her own company.

Many people love his or her partner conditionally. When you feel like you cannot live without a partner, you are subconsciously placing a lot of energy on that person to fulfil your happiness. Give out love to another person and expect it back because of your good intentions, and this is another form of conditional love.

Of course, in the past I loved conditionally, and those relationships did not work out. Ask yourself, how can you love another person unconditionally if you do not love yourself first? If you expect only the best for a partner, even if they left you for another person, then you are sending out unconditional love, which is very positive and will return to you in many ways.

Rather than expect your partner to fulfil your every desire, be grateful that you have a partner in your life and always send good wishes their way. Do not take him or her for granted, but give out a kind compliment to create his or her happiness, rather than crave one in return to boost the ego.

I find it positive to compliment others without a want for one in return. A lot of people compliment me on my guitar bag. I thought it was funky and different, and it is nice for others to send me positive vibes, but I also send out the same in return. Any kind gesture is a positive vibe of unconditional love, even to smile at a stranger. Not enough of us are kind to others, so make a positive change today!