Every thought we give out has a certain frequency. If you choose to send out hate, the Universe will give you more things to be hateful for. Perhaps I should be blogging this elsewhere, but I do gain a lot of readers on this website, and I know for some of you, this information will slip in.
Subconsciously, we have no idea what our mind is thinking. Habits are born out of subconscious beliefs. Walking, talking, and how to eat is born from our subconscious mind. Its power is infinite, but it can also destroy people if he/she holds onto grudges or blame others for his/her mistakes.
The path to forgiveness has not been easy for me, but the more I forgive myself for the decisions I have made, and the more I take back those harmful energies I have sent out through jealousy, fear, lack, hate, impatience, the higher I can raise my frequency to help the Universe to move into a new vibration.
Love is the strongest vibration, I believe forgiveness comes in at a steady second. Not enough of us forgive ourselves for the lessons in life. When something goes wrong, we often hate ourselves, but something you believed subconsciously caused that effect. The Law of Attraction is cause and effect. What we think about we create. If frustration is consciously born, the Universe will deliver more of that frequency into the life, harsh as that sounds.
Now is the time to forgive. Forgive others, and most importantly, forgive yourself. Memories are buried deep within the subconscious. Do you choose to live in the past and let the memories eat into you and destroy your current future, or do you choose to forgive yourself, claim back your power, and just focus on the now moment?
Wherever you are now, know that the current situations, whether good or bad, is there because of the energy you send out to the Universe. This can be hard to grapple, especially if you struggling with life or finances, but it is fairly easy to turn the mindset around. It is a struggle to change the habits of the subconscious mind, but it is possible. I have done it, and the change is amazing.
I forgive myself for the silly choices I have made in life. I forgive others for putting their energies onto me. I forgive the Government for enslaving everyone to work for money. The world as we know it is breaking away from the current third dimension, and entering the lower realms of the fourth dimension, hence all the chaos about money, industries collapsing, and the truth about religions. This has happened because enough individuals have raised his/her frequency, and the world cannot exist in a lower frequency of money and power. I love it! Of course, everything takes time, but the shift is really happening, I can just sense it.
Grudges, hate, lack, impatience, fear, and jealousy projected toward others is an extremely low vibration. You are basically stating to the Universe, “I do not trust in your powers.” Love and forgiveness are two of the most powerful frequencies in the entire Universe. If the current existence you find yourself in gives you cause to fear the future, turn it around by forgiving yourself for your current choices, how you think about your reality, and ask your Higher Self (through meditation or through deep breaths) to take back all the harmful energy you have sent out to the universe. This can be claimed back as energy because every thought, whether good or bad, is sent out as energy.
Let’s elaborate on this topic. I have a friend who is in love with a man who cannot forgive her for one mistake she made – this was getting flirtatious with another man. Nothing else happened. She did not cheat on Chris, (names changed), and she has put all her energy and focus into him.
Seeing this flirtation has brought back memories for Chris, plus the illusion that he will never be able to trust another woman ever again because this happened to him in the past. Okay, it takes a brave man to forgive somebody elses mistake, but that is all it was. Sharon made the mistake of talking to another man. She had no idea that what she did that night could affect her whole future. Sadly, this triggered the bad memory hidden within Chris’ subconscious.
The subconscious mind is a magnet for information. It takes in over forty thousand thoughts per day, good and bad memories for the ego to focus on in the future. When men get a bruised ego (which is all this is when he chooses a past memory to refocus upon), some men turn inward and choose to close the heart toward another.
If these two people got together to forgive each other instead of sending out mixed signals of mistrust (especially in the case of Chris), then they could work things out. Ho’onoponopono is a fabulous method they could use on each other, and I have told Sharon about this. I have also given her the tools to perform Emotional Freedom Technique and cutting the chord, but it is just a nod and then back to the negative reality.
The problem is both these people are making a conscious choice not to make a change. Chris is turning into a bitter and twisted man because he cannot forgive her, and Sharon is giving him more of her energy to drain every time she tries to get the relationship to work. All she has to do is forgive herself for her mistake (flirting with another), and send pure unconditional love to Chris. Her love is conditional because she is thinking about her own happiness instead of his.
I cannot force people to take action for the life choices they make, but I can sure as hell continue to spread the word of love, forgiveness, and perhaps one day, I can help enough to choose to make that change, just like Man in the Mirror.
