I’ve touched on asphyxiation, ass rimming with the tongue, fingers, and toys, and golden showers, but what about taking it one step further with rough sex? This article will not be for everyone, but I will touch on it for all you rough sex enthusiasts.
One thing a lot of women do not enjoy is swallowing spunk, or having it blown in their face, pussy, or mouth (spitting). Seriously guys/girls, you have to try it. Oral sex without swallowing is not the same, in my view, but I’ve always loved sucking cock. Want your man to see you as a Goddess, get swallowing. Semen is a good source of Vitamin C, Zinc, and it contains about twenty calories per teaspoon, so it’s hardly going to fill your ass. During a homosexual encounter, fit into a 69er position, and juice up your partner’s face, while his/her tasty juices drip onto your face and tongue.
Female squirters can spunk all over her partner’s face, and it is always sexy to share a kiss full of cum afterward. I like experimental men who at least try their own spunk. It doesn’t taste pleasant all the time, but I find it incredibly exciting.
Discussing this issue takes me back to a home made porn video I made of my Egyptian lover blindfolding me with a scarf, and spunking all over my face, and juicy lips. Everyone should try that one!
Slapping and spanking is another area I would like to touch upon. Spanking is a form of BDSM, and I discuss this in my new book, The Sexual Mind. Although I cannot state I have been slapped across the face during an intimate encounter, if any guy slapped me purposely, I’d leave the fucker tied up and sore for days. For men/women into slapping, keep it gentle, and always gain feedback from your lover. Other individuals love the thought of pleasure and pain, probably why hot fantasies explode into my head while I’m having a tattoo.
Spanking is a fun foreplay trick to use during doggy style. Having the ass squeezed or slapped slightly can feel very erotic in the moment. A little bit of pleasure and pain feels awesome, if you’re up for experimentation.
Hair pulling is my cup of tea. This is one of my favourite sexual techniques I touch upon in my new book. I love my hair squeezed, especially during doggy style or press-up sex. Be careful that your partner is not hair sore, this could explode his her anger.
Some individuals are into scratching and biting. Again the thought of pleasure and pain during a sexual encounter turns a scene incredibly erotic. I have been known to draw blood during rough sex, which is probably why I keep my nails short now. Biting and hard sucking is another area of interest, although some women have sensitive areas on their body during the menstrual cycle, especially the breasts.
Rough sex can get addictive. Buy some chains, attach them to your bed, and when you have a sexy lover in view, tie them up, and work them into a froth with the power of your sexual mind.
I used to view porn sites, and none of them promote rough sex. There were a lot of sites showing faces and mouths spunked on, but I often wondered it it was fake. The dicks were HUGE, and I know there are squirting dildos available, as I’ve reviewed one for The Adult Toy Shoppe. It was always about young girls dressed up in school clothes or nurses outfits, or fat dicks rimming a tight ass. It would have been good to view something different, like hair pulling, biting, and hard sucking, but I’m confident they’ll have to up their magic to gain viewers.
Wow! Very well written post! Plus…it’s true! I have had numerous telephone conversations with women who are otherwise conservative, but they secretly wish to engage in these things! Good Job! There’s nothing like a…Girl with a Dirty Mind!
Spot on. I find being with a lover who adores to have cum in her mouth such an amazing turn on. If I don’t ejaculate inside my lover, one thing I love to do is to splatter her face or ass with my cum, lick it all up into my mouth and then kiss deeply and passionately. Kissing after a lengthy 69ing is also hugely arousing. Nothing drives me wilder than having the taste of my cock and her juices mingling in our mouths together, and spending time alternating between oral sex and long, passionate kissing also extends the foreplay.
Playful spanking I find is a great way to initiate some anal play, if the mood dictates. If it does, my spanks will invariably begin to gently tease and tickle her anus, and it usually doesn’t take too long before my tongue can resist joining in. It’s exciting to vary who gets to bend over and who gets to do the spanking too.
Also if the thought of chains for tying up sound to heavy or uncomfortable there are plenty of softer restraints available, with easy to attach Velcro fasteners, and also allow for varying the positions of restraint too, not just a limb in each corner. A favourite of mine is to blindfold my lover, and slowly fasten the straps to her wrists, thighs and ankles without her knowing exactly how she’s going to end up. Usually it involves having her thighs spread wide and pulled up high towards her shoulders, so her anus is totally exposed and open for licking, fingering and toys. I enjoy being in this position myself too.
Biting and scratching I rarely engage in, though I do have one friend who absolutely loves a good hard hair pulling, which, coupled with some hot, nasty talk and a rough groping of her huge tits, literally has her dribbling her juices down her thighs in an instant. The same girl [perhaps unsurprisingly] also has something of a “rape play” fetish, which I know the very mention gets some people into a lather (and admittedly surprised me when she first told me), but now, for me this captures very essence of real rough sex; intimate role-playing with two willing, eager and “in-tune” partners which allows one to really “up the ante” and be more extreme and physical than one would perhaps normally be. Addictive? Very much so… almost as much as threesome sex.
Great post, and blog. Keep it up.
Well your comment has made me a little frothy. I get the rape play, and I have touched upon this in The Sexual Mind. Envious of the hair pulling, it’s one of my favourites.
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