Jul29
How many people struggle with relationships because they have no idea what they have done? We give ourselves away subconsciously by our body language gestures. Many of us do not realise what we are doing, how we show anxiety or stress. Eye contact is a biggie! If you can maintain eye contact with someone you have already proved that you are full of self-confidence. The way you carry yourself daily tells another person a great deal.
I’m a confident girl, but around some individuals, their aura makes me feel nervous and I look away. It may also be the distance in which you sit from someone, for example, in interviews. If the interviewers are quite close, the interviewee may feel on edge.
Relationship blunders to avoid:
- Never bring up your relationships from the past. They are over! Why do you want to remind yourself of the misery? Your partner is all that matters now. If you ever find yourself wanting to talk or moan about an ex, try to realize your mistake by inhaling deeply, and laugh it off! Your new partner does not want to hear about your ex girlfriend/boyfriend. This can be a topic that is very off-putting for many people.
- Do not rely on your partner for your happiness. Many individuals do in fact try to find a ‘wholeness’ in themselves with another. The truth is that you must feel content alone before you seek the partnership of another. Even if that time takes months or years, you owe it to yourself to stand on your own two feet and achieve inner happiness. Being single is always seen as ‘sad’ or ‘desperate’ so fuck what anyone else thinks. If you are happy as a singleton, you will always be the one who finds true happiness.
- Love unconditionally. If you love conditionally, you have too much hope and faith pinned on your relationship because you are already scared (although you have no idea about this) of losing them. Trust and jealousy can appear out of nowhere because of this fear that you are not good enough for your partner or you may lose them. The trick is to love unconditionally so that you enjoy your happiness with your partner, but you do not rely on them to make you feel whole. It is difficult to achieve, especially in this predominant negative world we live in, but it is possible to learn during spiritual awakening and meditation. True love is given without attachment.
- Live your own life. It is very important that you remember that you have your own life away from your partner. Love is beautiful to experience, but some individuals can get too ‘comfortable’ in a relationship, and if it goes ‘tits up’ they may feel devastated.
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Yeah, past relationships can be a bitch. When talking about your past life they’re hard to avoid but also full of dangerous pitfalls for the present one.