Following on from my article on ‘What Women Hate About Men’, in this short article I aim to discuss what men hate about women.
- Jealousy. Most men want to be able to trust their partner. Some women are very insecure and this is the reason why men choose to keep their female friends secret. What is the big deal anyway? Women are allowed male friends and males female friends. If your partner has a trust issue then it is time to move on and find a woman who does trust you. Jealously is a negative habit.
- Neediness. In the beginning of a relationship a lot of women can get over their heads and fall in love, even after the first or second date. This is natural for women because, after sex, they secrete the hormone, Oxytocin (the Love hormone). Women need to remember to chill out and live their own lives rather than live in the pocket of their partners. Confidence in your own life and goals is an attractive trait to have.
- Emotional. Women can fly into a rage at any time. I know I do about the silliest things. This may be due to clothes left around, or receiving no answer to an important question that is already niggling at me. God, I hate being a woman at times because we think so differently. Whatever the problem is, remember guys that women like to feel important and cherished. They want you to surprise them occasionally with chocolates, flowers, or a journey between their legs early in the morning. Try to empathise with them. Women need to remember that men think very differently. They are easy going and do not like to dwell on things. Why live in the past anyway? The present has the most importance.
- Sex. Men love sex, and they hate that women often take away sex during stressful times. It is a primal instinct for men to sleep with as many women as possible, as experts state. I do not believe this is true. Once a man finds their perfect partner, they become content. Those men who have affairs or need to look for female prey are dissatisfied with their life in some way, whether they like to admit it or not. Girls…start to trust your man and give into sex. Sex is natural and releases feel good hormones, endorphins so you’ll usually feel better. And make up sex is often hotter and raunchier than normal sex.
- Criticism. Men like confident women. If you feel the need to criticise yourself or another it is another negative habit that immediately diminishes their respect for you. They may keep quiet about it, but they secretly want a confident girl who is happy about life and does not need to judge others. Girls – if you hate certain aspects about yourself, change them if you must, but do not let your own insecurities damage your relationship. Remember, your partner is with you because they fell in love with the ‘true’ you.
- Pettyness/Irrational/Illogical. Often women do not think about the bigger picture of the relationship and tend to dwell on something stupid and insignificant. This is dangerous because when something big or something worth fighting over actually strikes, they have already lost the battle. Or even if they have the right to get upset, they turn it into a dramatic and epic premeditated conspiracy. Something as simple as “call me after you go out with your boys to check it”, or “Why you were hanging out” and another woman happen to be there talking with you. So many times I have been out with my friends and their girlfriends get upset about something that had nothing to do with anything going on that day or involving the people in that group. This still does not stop the illogical response of ruining the night for everyone by running off and leaving early, or making a scene, and just bringing the mood down. It’s important…even critical for a man to have a girl who can hang out with friends and contribute something good, or at least not be offended by what goes on.
