I’m sure you have heard the term ‘Men are from Mars and Women are from Venus’. Men and women vary, and it often drives women crazy the amount of difference that occurs. Some of the common things that women hate about men are:
- They lie. When some women meet men they secretly plan their future with them. Of course, this is what scares most men away. If a guy does not get in touch when he states he will it sends women into a panic. What to do. Live your own life and forget about him. Always appear to be busy and do NOT let a man rule your life? Instead of planning a future together try living in the moment.
- Secrecy. Relationships can become boring once the ‘honeymoon’ period vanishes. Some men like to keep things on edge by remaining secretive. It is a positive thing to remain private about some areas of your life, but it can drive some women crazy. Secrets may include brief flirtations with female strangers. It is impossible to change a man and why would you want to? Obviously, if your partner has to keep secrets from you then they feel unable to share them with you. What to do? Keep things to yourself. Instead of sharing the joy with others remain content in yourself. Also, hiding a secret can often mean deeper insecurities. Be yourself and control your urges to ask him twenty questions. He is living his life so forget about him for once and try living yours.
- Untidiness. Most women hate cleaning up after their partner. This can include leaving out beer cans or food, clothes on the floor, or even leaving the toilet seat up. These minor things that do not bother men can infuriate women to the point of serious arguments. What to do. Agree on a plan of action rather than leave it. Do not shout at your partner because you will only add more frustration to your own life. Try to act calm like nothing bothers you and repeat the afformation: why is my partner clean and tidy now.
- Fall asleep after orgasm. Men secrete a hormone after orgasm that helps them fall asleep instantly. After lovemaking, women often want to cuddle and engage in more lovemaking. Most women may feel used and hurt when their partner curls up to go to sleep. What to do. Nip to the freezer, grab an ice cube and keep them awake by teasing it down their spine.
- Unreliable. When women text a man they often want a quick response. Most men use women for an ego boost and like to reply when it is convenient for them. These are simple bad boy antics. Whether they choose to do it on purpose, I guess you will never know. The truth is that if a guy likes you enough he will not make you wait for a response. What to do. Stop thinking about the guy. I realise it is difficult to forget about someone who you feel a connection with, but if you try to remain busy you will attract more admirers who deem you worthy. What happens next is often the guy who originally ‘forgot to email’ will get back in touch but you’ll be over him.
I guess there are other things that women hate about men like dress sense, white trainers etc, and metrosexual men, but the above will apply to most women.
