Throughout our lives we are conditioned to do this or need that. What exactly do we need? Nothing in the present moment. You have everything you need. We are taught that there is a soul mate in the world or ‘the one’. Some people search their entire lives for that perfect person, but what they need to find is that perfect person in themselves. You are the only one in a relationship with yourself. Learn to love every inch of beautiful you. Nobody else can make you feel whole.
Choosing the wrong relationships will always turn back to you and how you feel about yourself? Do you feel whole in yourself or do you pick the wrong men/women time and time again? I realise that it is a hard lesson because many people do not want to end up alone in this short life, but to become a beacon to magnetise unconditional love, you must first feel this for yourself.
A little philosophical yes. When I used to go out with my girlfriends they were always on the lookout for men. It then made me desperate for attention, and I had never been that way before. ‘Do you miss having  boyfriend’ I was asked while waiting for the coach at last year’s Sonisphere festival. Her question made me feel like a desperado. She is always in need of a man on her arm. What is her problem?
I have been out with some great men during my twenty-nine years. What have the lessons taught me? It is positive to spend some time alone during one’s lifetime. How many people depend on another to make them whole? Send unconditional love to friends, family, and strangers, but I have found that you cannot force someone to fall in love with you.
