I’m just curious as to how long mens/women’s orgasms can be? Sometimes, my pussy is already contracting even before I’ve cum, other times I know it’s building and it’s an incredible feeling before I release.
During phone sex with my fella last night, which happened rather unexpectedly, I found myself to be rather wet. He got hard in seconds, and I rubbed up and down, circled with two fingers, and rubbed myself slowly to such a hot orgasm that probably got my neighbours wondering where the loud groans were coming from. I waited patiently for Keith to ‘give it to me’. He moaned and groaned for well over ten seconds. Man, he was wild! I can only imagine if he was spraying it all over my body he’d cover me.
I’m curious as to the length of orgasm in some men and women? Does it depend on arousal, or is it a mental release. Is it also longer – and stronger – if you’ve not masturbated for days, even weeks?
The length and number of contractions I experience varies incredibly. But the most consistent catalyst for a very lengthy and powerful orgasm is how long stimulation continues before I finally let loose. Especially if I’ve been edging, riding the plateau right before orgasm and keeping that intensity flowing for as long as possible, backing off penetration, or hand-motions, or licking, as necessary.
One of my most intense orgasms was from engaging in some light tease-and-denial. Basically bringing myself to the edge multiple times the night before, but never bring myself to full release, and then having the most incredible, semen-pumping, mind-blowing orgasm the next morning. I woke up so horny and ready to roll.
Another very consistent factor is the amount of time since my previous orgasm. If I cum daily, whether from sex or masturbation, things are still immensely pleasurable, but not as intense as if I wait a day or two between ejaculations. I waited two weeks after my vasectomy to cum again – and damn! That was earth-shattering. My whole body was trembling.
I’ve tried to take better notes of my ejaculatory response, but that’s incredibly difficult during sex, and the male mind tends to go blank for a bit when in the throws of masturbatory release. I guess I need to start filming what I’m doing and take better notes.