Asphyxiation Orgasm
on April 11th, 2010 at 10:04 am
Warning! This may offend some readers, and is only for the more experimental minds. My friend touched upon a subject after a ‘scrabble’ marathon. I thought I would share it with you.
The asphyxiation wank is a very taboo subject, and it is rarely practiced by couples during intercourse. Only very experienced mistresses will dare to participate in games like these, as they are highly dangerous. I do not condone this act, and I advise caution to anyone who tries asphyxiation. It can be a fun way to play mistress, and dominate your partner, even if you do not restrict your partner’s breathing particularly much.
My friend has experimented with asphyxiation on his own and with girlfriends. The easiest way for a man to experiment with asphyxiation is to masturbate as normal lying on your back, and place a pillow over your face whilst pleasuring yourself. This will give an indication of whether or not you like the heightened feeling. Furthermore, you can push the pillow into your face to further hinder the breathing. The sensation produces a very strong orgasm that will give an extremely intense pleasure, although, according to my friend, spurts of semen explode rather than a big gush. This strengthens orgasm, and is felt more in his head and body rather than the dick.
The next stage to experiment with asphyxiation is particularly useful. It involves placing your hand flat across your mouth covering the nostrils with your index finger and thumb, squeezing them together. This should be performed at the later stage of a wank, and is perfect for those times when you struggle to achieve orgasm. The sensation is more intense than normal, but again less sensation is felt in the penis, and less semen ejaculates. It would be interesting if women did this to their partner’s mouths in order to achieve synchronised orgasms. My friend has done this on many occasions, and he does recommend it. The convenience of the hand technique is that you can push yourself further and further into asphyxiation, and before anything untoward happens you can quickly remove your hand and breathe as normal. Even if the timing is not perfect, and you run out of breath before you cum, you will still achieve a memorable experience.
Lastly, there are more dangerous methods to asphyxiation, such as plastic bags over the head or creative gag work. It all depends on whether you can still concentrate with a bag over your head, as it is very dangerous and taboo, and some people have died in this way. Very close attention is needed if you experiment in this area. It is imperative that you must know your body inside and out, and trust your partner implicitly if you are going to experiment with anything like this to heighten the sex life. He recommends a small Waterstones bag, being the perfect tightness over the head.
A favourite of his was panties in the mouth, a scarf tied over the panties, and a stocking over the head; this restricts breathing to a larger extent. Allowing just the merest tweaking close of the nostrils just before orgasm. He is kinky! I am not sure if this works the same for women as it does for men. I have not experimented in this field, but I may sometime in the future, preferably without use of any bag.
When I was 21s I dated a guy who introduced this in the bedroom after only a few weeks of dating. I was game to try anything (he was super-hot and I liked experimenting). He would put a scarf around my neck and tighten it. Didn’t do a thing for me – it actually scared me at one point. He never let me do it to him, so I think it was more about aggression towards women than anything else. Our relationship ended shortly after that.
At least you know what you like and do not like!
This is a dangerous game!
Four minutes with no oxygen to your brain leaves you brain damaged at best, dead at worst. If you have your own hand over your mouth when/if you loose consciousness then it will fall away and you will probably not suffer any harm If you have a bag or a gag and you get it wrong then the mistake could be fatal for you or your partner.
My boyfriend puts pressure on my neck for only a few seconds at a time, very safe, but i like the pressure, and the struggle to breath for short periods. i can DEFINATELY notice a change, it feels amazing. and i can always ask for more if i want more, or turn away if i feel uncomfortable. it’s a good method, not dangerous, but intense, good when he’s right about to cum and thrusts into me harder, very intense.