I don’t know about you, but I find it difficult to get aroused when I feel stressed. But stress is the norm of life. It is always easier to focus on problems rather than see over the brick wall at a solution. Isn’t it always easier to sleep on things and wake up with a clarified mind in the morning? Oh the marvel of dreams, and this is how weird my dreams were last night after ‘focusing’ far too much on other people. A black cat hovered into my dream, apparently associated with black magic, I was riding a push bike on the motorway in such a strong wind, then when I realised I had to ride back, I experienced so much tension waiting for others in order to get a journey back with them. Then I had the feeling that others thought I always spoilt things for them. Weirdly, I had played a fun game of Black Magic last night at a friend’s house.
So how does one get rid of stress in an instant? I’m afraid there isn’t a cure for that, but I’ll always try to force an orgasm out by stimulating my g-spot, even if it takes me bloody hours and my mind isn’t even horny. Sex is such a massive de-stresser. I always wish my boyfriends hands were in the UK to run their hands through my hair – that is my favorite move to chill me out. Massage is a fantastic relaxant, as is a long erotic kissing session. Simple conversation can also help many couples, but many strive to hold in their problems. This is one of my issues that I can’t seem to work through. Sharing concerns with another halves the problem.
Music is a fantastic de-stresser, so to make love while listening to my favorite music is bliss. Boxing chills me out so much, and whenever I arrive back from a tough training session, I’m horny as soon as I chat with my boyfriend. Just as there are many easy ways to get stressed, there are equally enough to de-stress us. Sex is one of them, so do not let stress get in the way. Whenever you feel stress occurring, that feeling of blood boiling in your system, simply say delete and banish it to the back of your mind, and opt for something pleasurable that releases endorphins like exercise or sex.
