There are many hundreds of fetishes out there, but how many men and women will admit to a fantasy that involves food, WAM, or sploshing, as recently featured on Secret Diary of a Call Girl. It does happen. Getting messy and sticky with food mimics the sexual juices that slip out of the penis and vagina during penetration, and it can be extremely erotic for those into this fetish.
What is Sploshing?
So what exactly does sploshing, wet and messy (WAM), or food play entail? Obviously, if you’re going to try it with your partner then it’s going to get messy so be prepared with plastic sheets or cover each other in the bath/shower. Play games with food or dominate your partner by tying him/her up and covering his/her anatomy with sweet delights, such as honey, chocolate, or whipped cream. Food play or sploshing does not have to cover the body totally. Adding ice cream or other edibles to your partner’s body creates friction and heightens the senses.
Not Fancy Sploshing? Try Oil
A non-sploshing but erotic way to see if you would enjoy to take it a step further with food play is to cover your partner’s body in oil, then your own, and rub together. If you love that, you’ll love covering your body with food.
A great way to create desire in your partner is to cover her breasts with cream, for example, but deliberately avoid the nipple area, while massaging the food around her breasts. You can kiss around her breasts, but avoid the nipples. This creates desire, and will drive her crazy for you. Taking away the desire of touch on certain parts of the body automatically heightens her need for stimulation. Try smoothing a little ice cream on the inside of her thighs to create desire for your fingers, tongue, or both to stroke her clit. I guaranteed she will get wild.
If you’re really into sploshing, then take it slowly with your partner to display enthusiasm. Stimulate your partner’s anatomy with food in the bath, if you would prefer that it not mess up your sheets, and food play is messy, I can verify. Even strawberries creates a wild mess of the sheets. If you’re an adventurous guy and like to spring spontaneity on your girlfriend or lover, invest in a pair of kinky handcuffs, and tie her hands to the bed as soon as she enters the room after a stressful day at work.
Create Spontaniety
Dominate her immediately by stripping her slowly. This will excite her senses to wonder what you have in mind. A man who takes control is virtually impossible to resist. She will surrender to your charms, and if you’re ready, the stimulation and impatience could bring her to one of her hottest and most intense orgasms. All men want to pleasure a girl with a real orgasm than to face the reality of a faked orgasm. And a faker, by the way, will not have rosy cheeks or suffer involuntary contractions in the vagina, which is perfect if you want to feel a deep suck on your penis during penetration. Also, look for deep moans of satisfaction. Is she gripping your hair (if her wrists aren’t tied or handcuffed), or screaming your name. These are all good signs that you’re getting her hot and bothered and ready for climax.
Taking control like this will also encourage her to let go of sexual inhibitions. As soon as she is naked and quivering…and under your total control, drizzle a little honey on her breasts, but avoid the nipple area. Carry on drizzling the honey or ice cream over her swollen tits, then climb on top and rub your naked body over them to create friction. If you avoid kissing, this will turn the scene hot, but it will also be tough, especially when your penis is rock hard and ready to penetrate.
Talk dirty beside her ear, while you’re rubbing your naked body against your partner’s sticky honey coated body. Whisper how good she tastes, and create desire for penetration by rubbing your cock over their clit.
WAM Conclusion
In conclusion, sploshing, WAM or food play is spontaneous, frivolous and not for everyone couple, because of its messy elements. The trick with food play is to start light and build up the activity. Spring a surprise, plan it, or go crazy and cover each other in oil or ice cream and rub each other, until you both reach climax. Food play/sploshing/WAM heightens the senses, and will definitely boost your sex life, if you’re willing to go the extra mile and experiment together.
