Feb09
Inside a Man's Mind – Part 4
on February 9th, 2010 at 12:11 am- For most guys what do they find attractive about girls when they are looking for a one night stand or relationship? Example, clothes, shoes, attractiveness, too much make-up, body type etc. Eyes first and foremost to see any kind of connection with her…eyes window to the soul etc. Then body hair, face, for me hips waist curve is key attractive feature, breasts are not a deciding factor if the rest is there. Clothes can indicate confidence and taste so expensive clothes could be an attraction.
- What makes a guy want to see a girl again after a one night stand or date? Example, if a girl gives out on the first date and sleeps with a guy, do they hold less respect for them? Talking to the wrong guy. I look for a mental connection. That’s what would bring me back for more whether or not she slept with me on the first date or not whether or not she’s got great knockers, whatever. There would have to be some connection and intrigue to learn more about her. Sleeping on the first date could be the appropirate thing to do if there were an amazing connection. Anyone dealing with that question seriously is playing games which I don’t really like to do. Same for the don’t call til three days later bullshit. If you had a moment she’ll know it and I’ll know it, so even calling back the same night is fine if it was magical.
- What’s the difference between girlfriend material and shag buddy material? Again not to sound too unmanly, the difference is the connection. If you know a realtionship is not going to go very far, there’s no connection, intrigue, spark, but you like the girl, then you’re honest with her and she’s a shag buddy. If you have a connection, think about her constantly and she drives you to sub conscious feelings, she’s girl friend.
- From a man’s perspective, what does it feel like if a girl has ever cheated on them? Do they have trust issues? Again I’m not a typical person. Men may look at it differently in that we are always supposed to be competing for women. So losing a battle to another man is not that unusual. A man may be happy if he can win the war and have the woman he wants even if he has lost battles to other men. Also frequency is an issue. If she cheats over and over its a waste continue and she’s untrustable. If its once under the right set of circumstances, trust could be maintained.
- Do men really like girls who are sexually forward (or they don’t admit it) or do they really prefer the quiet, shy girls? I think I personally would look for someone in between. Sexually forward in a connected relationship is fine. But, A woman who is forward to everyone regardless of who they are is a turn off. A shy quiet woman who remains so even in a one to one with you probably has problems or is alot of work, so that is a turn off unless there is some connection that makes the work worthwhile or interesting.
- Do independent girls scare men? Most men yes, me no.
- Is it important that a girl makes a man feel good when in a relationship? Not sure I understand the question because the obvious answer is, Hell Yes. If she doesn’t make him feel good, feel good about himself, feel good sexually, feel good about life, then what use is she?
- Do insecure girls put off men? Insecure girls are more work and can be frustrating for most men. Most men want a woman to be in the same place they left her when they go away and return. That said, a knowledgable man will realize the way of the world and not expect that and know how to deal with it. The real question is does the insecure girl offer rewards that exceed the extra work? If not she’ll put men off. If so then she’s worth it. An insecure woman pretending to be secure is a lie and a fake and would put men off.
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