I am intrigued by this question and would like to know exactly why people have affairs? Is it primitive to their nature or are they simply bored. I believe in marriage. I do not want to get married until I meet the right person but I am a believer in fidelity. I want to be married for life so they have to be fiery in the bedroom, have a wicked personality, be fun and spontaneous and, most of all, be able to get on with me and understand my weird side.
Okay, I have had affairs in the past with married men. Perhaps I drew themselves to me with my sometimes flirtatious personality or open minded sexual mind. Perhaps it was overly adventurous body language that let me down but it’s all in the past now. I would never do it again. Ain’t it weird how people change over the space of a few years. I would still class myself as highly adventurous but I do not need to shag every man in the whole world to do it, I have met a wild man who attends to my every sexual desire.
So I am going to end this blog with the answer that I think people have affairs because they need to feel fulfilled in perhaps a part of their life they do not feel any hope, maybe in their sex life or it may be attention seeking. Even I can admit I used to have one night stands for two reasons, 1) for attention and to feel sexy and 2) for sex and orgasms. Selfish and dangerous, yes, but I’m running this blog now so it has its good bits.
Or perhaps if sex is offered on a plate even in a happy relationship, men still would risk their relationship for a quick fumble. If it was real love would they really? Trust is a big thing that takes time to build up. To betray that trust in a relationship or marriage may take a person forever to rebuild. Think carefully before having an affair.
Great question. I will definitely come back by to see what answers you receive.
I think people have affairs for the rush, the excitement and because they are lacking something…which leads to them needing the excitement and to take a risk.
Men have affairs mostly because they are loosing interest or there is something missing in their relationship. If they are just fucking a random girl her or there they just want some new ass but if they are continuously seeing another wowan then there is something wrong in their relationship
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Good points, I think I will definitely subscribe! I’ll go and read some more! What do you see the future of this being?
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