Just as men are different, so too are women. Many women have high expectations of their partner and relationship, so do some guys. Some do not understand that they must develop a relationship with themselves before they seek a partner who will offer them everything they desire.
Many women hop from one bad relationship to the next with the hope that the next with be fulfilling but they often end up hurt again because of their high expectations. Usually, they are picking the wrong type of guy repetitively. This can be a difficult cycle to rid yourself of but it can be done. Remember, your mind creates your reality. Believe you are the best, deserve the best and you will get it. The trick is to be patient. Love cannot be forced.
Often, the game of love meets with some game playing. If you choose the right guy you will not attract a game player. This may not seem attractive to both men and women to have a guy/girl by their side all the time, a guy/girl who will do them no harm, and one who is heavily reliable. Sometimes it can do both men and women good to play a little hard to get. I am not into game playing but this usually works.
For instance, if you are usually a mobile phone maniac and like to text all day every day to your partner but they respond very slowly, it’s easy; leave your mobile phone at home. This will get your partner wondering about the delay because they are used to you always being there. This can make them a little insecure if they are used to the attention. Remember, some men and women crave attention. Making someone wait usually creates more desire. No doubt you’ve heard the expression, ‘you want more of what you can’t have.’
What about those people, like me, who hate game playing? I have always been direct and honest. If I like someone I’ll tell them. No point playing around, life is short. Often, I have shown too much interest which has been misread by a guy through no fault of my own. Their prerogative I guess but I am a woman who does not like to play mind games.
Now I have met a guy who I can really trust. I can tell him anything and he is still there for me. He is attentive, loving, highly sexual, and makes me feel amazing. All this after waiting for seven years with the belief that there was no-one I could attract who would understand my mind, the way I think differently, and take on my sexuality that I want to share with the world through my writing. Girls and guys, your true partner will be one you want to be with forever and there is one or perhaps more of them for all of us hopefully in this life. Be patient and they will come.
