Sexual toys are great, yes, but have you ever used the most powerful toy, the mind, in the same degree?  The key is to focus on the body part that is receiving the stimulation. I’m sure you can agree with me that you cannot focus and have multi-orgasms with more than one person at the same time. True emotions work well with a good sexual connection with your partner. Learn to find that spark with your partner and you will never need to look elsewhere.

Your partner must work with you. If there is something both you and they do not like during sex, learn to like giving pleasure. A good kiss is giving, stroking is pleasurable for you both; they feel the soft skin, you their touch, which is intimate. Toys are fun to use sometimes but take advantage of the hottest erogenous zones, the skin and mind. Used together, they can take your breath away and help you to reach orgasm. Work with your partner to connect. Talk, kiss, caress, massage, stimulate, and concentrate on the sensations you feel in the body. Learn to relax and multi-orgasms will come.

What can be more inspirational than finding that sexual connection with your partner without the use of any toys or stimulants, simply through your own powerful mind?  I talk more about the power of the mind in my latest book coming soon, The Sexual Mind: Guide to FFI Sex.