Wouldn’t it wonderful to have synchronised orgasms with your partner. Some couples do or others orgasm during foreplay or sex. Orgasms can also be caused through text or phone sex, if you’re willing to play the game.
So what is required to have synchronised orgasms with your partner? Some women take longer to come than others. Regular masturbation can help a women to find out what turns them on, what kind of fantasies they like to think about to become aroused, and how they like to be touched. I’ll admit it now. I used to fake orgasms with some of my lovers until I realised I was getting no pleasure except sex. I wanted to cum and have a mad orgasms like the guy did whom I fucked.
I give you some tips on how you can realise whether a man or woman is faking orgasm it in my new book, Guide to FFI Sex.
In order to have synchronised orgasms with your partner you need to:
- Realise how you like to be touched. If it’s soft and gentle, tell your partner. If oral sex is always the way you climax, tell your partner when you get close through oral and then let him stroke you to orgasm during sex. Always speak your mind.
- Your partner must have excellent self control. If they cannot stop their orgasms, this will be difficult to achieve a synchronised orgasm. If they can wait for you to cum, they may be able to have mini ejaculations before the big one. This is the stage I get my lover into before I climax. It’s so horny.
- Give your partner feedback. Obviously moan and scream their name if that’s what you choose to do but also tell your partner where you are in your arousal. Are you close? What would you like your partner to do to get to that stage where you can tell them you’re orgasming and they can release and cum too?
- NEVER fake it. Remember that girls usually take longer to climax than guys. Do not condemn yourself over this. Simply remember that you’re unique and that the longer you wait, the stronger the orgasm.
- Letting your partner bring you to orgasm is so much hotter than self play. Let him rub your clit with his fat cock, slip inside you, and rub your own juices against your bulbous clit.
Synchronised orgasms are so hot and creates real intimacy between couples.
