GIRL WITH A DIRTY MIND

Admit it, how many of us follow our lifes on routine? We get up, have sex,  have breakfast, go to work, get home, have tea, have sex at night, go to bed. This is how people see their life – full of routines. Shake it up and be spontaneous.

If you hate your job – QUIT. I cannot tell you the changes I made to my life when I took that leap of faith and let my own thoughts create my reality. Why make money for others when you have all the power within?

If your sex life is lacking now is the time to question WHY. Is it because you are both tired from work, you feel unattractive, have a phobia about showing off your figure to your partner during the day or with the lights on. Whatever the EXCUSE you decide to state is the reason for a boring sex life you need to change your mindset.

I believe that a good sex life is the base of a positive, fulfilling relationship. This is why I have set up this website, written my erotica stories based on my life, and written an easy to read guide book on how to have a fulfilling life. Okay, I agree that not everyone is as confident as me but I wasn’t always like this. If you consider that I was bullied at school for being too quiet I’m sure that you can see, as well as I, that I have come a long way. I do not care what people think about me. My goal is to turn on the world with my writing. Whether that happens in my lifetime I cannot predict the future but I will certainly try.

I get turned on by spontaneous people. This is important and necessary, especially in long-term relationships and marriages. Make time for a sex life, make no excuses. Maintain touch and little things like kissing. This creates intimacy between you and your partner. If an evening usually consists of having tea and chilling in front of the TV, light some candles and surprise your partner with a massage. Do it naked, entice your partner by showing off your own sexy side with confidence.

Confidence has got me where I want to be today. Had I not had the confidence to go after what I want and experimented and found out what I liked sexually, how could I have written my erotica or my guide book? I know it is incredibly ambitious to write about ones own sex life but I hope that it helps others to open up their mind to how cool sex can really be. I have never stated that I am an expert but I’ve been there and tried it. Do sexperts experiment?