How many of you can say that you spend enough time on foreplay? How many of you think it is an unnecessary time wasting tactic that gets you closer to the big orgasm but you do it anyway? If you believe that rubbing each other off is the only definition of foreplay you are wrong.

I love foreplay. Anything can become a foreplay move? An indian head massage, breakfast, dinner, tea, texting, phone calls, cyber chat. All you have to do is to turn it kinky. Make your partner think about you naked but be subtle. Try to persuade them to think about you and sex. Over dinner, for example, play footsy or eat your meal in front of your partner slowly, maintaining eye contact. This is a serious flirtatious move. During a chill out when watching TV, let your partner massage your shoulders or hair and moan for them to give your feedback. This will get him twitching in his trousers or shorts.

Even before the thought of getting intimate, strip off, get your duvet and lie together on the sofa cuddling. Kiss and caress each other until it becomes passionate. During a phone call or text tell them what you would like to do to them when they arrive home or send a teasing text to make them think. Try to spring a surprise on their day in any kind of way.