GIRL WITH A DIRTY MIND

This article is going to give hints and tips on how to become a good lover. I am not perfect but I am good in bed. I have never had any complaints and I class that as a compliment. Men have always wanted seconds. Whether I gave them that opportunity was down to how they performed in bed. I’m sure this will not win me any fans but if I’m going to be honest in my blogs it has to be the truth.

Here are my tips on how to become a good lover.

• Learn to become a good kisser – It is the first thing that men and women or homosexual couples do when they get together. Kissing raises the intimacy levels and helps you develop feelings for the other. Extremely good kissing helps you to find out if there is special chemistry with your partner or lover.

• Show enthusiasm – This is very important. A confident girl is always sexier next to a shy girl who lies there. What about if you are shy and are not used to anything other than missionary position? Practice practice practice. Get drunk if you need to. Dress up sexy and look at yourself in the mirror. Imagine what it would feel like to get extremely flirtatious in front of your partner.  Image their surprised look and the hot sex that is to come.

• Give feedback - This is important. If you cannot give your partner feedback on their moves, how will they know if they are turning you on the way you like it. Moan, talk dirty, and be confident when your partner performs oral sex on you. This will help you both to become a good lover.

• Masturbate – Learn to find out what turns you on and how you like to be stroked. Some women like it hard and fast, others slowly. If you know that you do not have the confidence to bring yourself to orgasm in front of your partner at least try it out yourself. Only by experimenting can you find out what makes you orgasm.

• Give pleasure - This is something I have always loved to do. A few slight men have not enjoyed it, some laughed because it tickled and others were too nervous to orgasm no matter how soft I licked and sucked. If your partner cannot climax it may an insecurity they must deal with. This could be due to trauma or mistrust from an old relationship. Giving your cock or pussy to your partner is a very intimate act so it must be respected. Giving oral sex is amazing, helps to tone the facial muscles, and prevents a double chin too. Experiment with your tongue, fingers, and lips. Try out varieties and listen out for your partners moans. If your tongue kisses up and down their shaft, ask them if they enjoy that. Look up at your partner when you perform oral and show them your enjoyment.

• Try out experimentation – There are other fun sexual positions better than missionary. I highlight ten positions and four varieties of each position in my new book, Guide to FFI Sex, available very soon. Try out woman on top, doggy style, stand up sex, press-up sex, opposite ends, seated sex, reverse cowgirl etc. These are exciting positions that show off your figure and give your partner wonderful views of your anatomy.

• Get kinky – Text or ring your partner and tell them that you can’t get them out of your mind, that you want to feel their hands all over you, for them to rub your slick juices over your clit, and penetrate you firmly. This ought to take their attention off their stressful job and place it onto you. Do not let stress take over your life, let sex take over instead. Let your true sexuality shine through.