I have never really been into astrology. Okay, I always read Cainer’s horoscopes because it’s all so surreal. It is physically impossible to believe that what they write is definitely about YOU. If you have ever ordered an astrological chart or report you will find out that your sun sign (virgo, sagittarius, taurus) for example is only a small percentage of yourself.

Your moon will be in another sign and there are various planets in your houses. Not sure what this means but it was absolutely fascinating to read when I ordered mine in 2009. When I read it I thought, “Damn, that is me.” Astrological reports help you to connect with yourself much more richly.

So if astrologers are able to find out so much from you just from the day and time you were born, no doubt astrology is important to relationships. What you may not know from your relationship is if you are well matched. What I did not know about myself until last year was that I have a Virgo Sun and a Pisces Moon. When I had my second relationship, I became so closely connected to Jason and I didn’t know why. Now I know. He was a Pisces sun sign. Astrology is so eerily accurate, often up to 80%.

I am now dating a Scorpio. I have dated a fair few scorpios in my time and they have all been aggressive, selfish, and unloving. Because K’s astrological chart is balanced he is nothing like other scorpios who might have tried to show a possessive side toward me. He’s only possessive of me in the bedroom, but that’s fine by me.

If you have any concerns about your relationships or you want to know if you and your partner are a match made in heaven, write to me, I’ll ask my beau, who’s a fantastic astrologer. I would need the exact time that you and your partner were born and both your dates of birth. What he tells you may help you work better with your partner. Sometimes we don’t realise relationship highs and lows could be something so simple as matched or  mis-matched astrology.