GIRL WITH A DIRTY MIND

Each and every one of us can become a good lover. In this series of articles, I am going to give you hints and tips on how to become a better lover. What is a relationship about? Friendship, sex, intimacy, trust, and sharing. For most new couples the first six to twelve months gives out the hottest sex. After twelve months that happens is that most couples fall into a routine spell of sex. Sex may remain in missionary position, hardly any foreplay, and sex is at night with the lights off.

What I aim to do with these series of articles is to help you step out of that routine, boring spell and into one of enchantment and pure lust. If you can show your partner how you like to be touched, that you like to experiment with positions, and still find them damn attractive, this will help your partner to see you in a new light, one of intense sexuality.

MOVE

Both men and women want to make love to a fiery partner, not one who just lies there, hardly moans, and does not even attempt to move their ass. Although it can be tough to show enthusiasm, especially during missionary, there are many positions out there that allow you to show stamina, enthusiasm, and show your feedback through pleasurable moans and the ‘orgasm’ face.

Girl on top is an ideal position in which to take control. Your partner has an eye full of your breasts bopping up and down with each thrust, you can pleasure your clitoris while they watch, and this position gives an incredible workout to the inside thighs and buttock muscles. More than likely, a couple of hours of sex in this position and you really will be walking like Clint Eastwood in the morning.

Other benefits of energetic sexual workouts is the boost it gives to the immune system. During sex, invisible pheromones are released, which strongly attract your partner to you. Also, show off your figure, preferably with the lights on. Men love to stare at the female form. If you are on top they really will think of you and remember you as a deity. Men have insecurities just as much as women do about pleasuring their partner.

I agree that not everyone is as confident as me, but I like to be memorable and get in a sweaty workout during sex. Even during missionary sex, with every thrust you receive off your partner, bring your buttocks upwards, push them into the thrust. This will give the thighs and buttock a stimulating workout and tone them.

If you are normally a placid lover and like to have sex at night, with the lights off, only to conceive, step out of that guilt and have sex for FUN. Sex is wonderful, releases endorphins, reduces stress in the body, gives extreme pleasure, and is a wonderful way to increase intimacy with your partner. Surprise your lover with a sexy pole dance, sultry striptease, or tie them up and dominate them until they’re raging hard. For these ‘good girls’ it is important to show off your inner minx, the one who likes to dominate, experiment, talk dirty, and enjoy long sweaty sessions of horny sex. Let your partner see that new side. You do not want your partner looking at porn, although some couples do like this, you want to find your partner screaming your name and masturbating about YOU.