Dec07

Solo Masturbation

by Girl With A Dirty Mind on December 7th, 2009 at 6:34 pm
Posted In: Masturbation, Tips for a Hot Sex Life

Article two on how to become a better lover.

SOLO MASTURBATION

Believe it or not, a lot of women still fake their orgasm. Perhaps they feel guilty because it takes longer for them to orgasm or are not confident enough to masturbate in front of their partner. Why would you deny that pleasure to yourself, especially when it is so much easier for men, supposedly.

One of the hottest fantasies for a man is to watch their partner masturbate. The thought of their partner having solo sex can turn a man very hard. Of course, masturbation in front of someone requires confidence.

  1. Put on a sexy fragrance, one that makes you feel sexy and happy or entice your lover with a little of your own natural lube, which contain natural pheromones. Dab it on the side of your neck. Obviously, after a shower.
  2. Dress up if it makes you feel sexier.
  3. When you have plucked up the courage to surprise your partner, light some candles, have a little intimate kissing foreplay with your partner to get them in the mood and then dominate.
  4. Tie your partner up to the bed and stand up at the opposite end or sit directly on their legs. Basically, place your body in the right place so your sexy curves can be seen by your partner.
  5. Think of a hot fantasy you would love to play out for real with your partner. Start to touch your body. Close your eyes and run your hands over your lips, down your neck, between your breasts and circle each nipple. Turn it harder and watch your partner turn hard in the process.
  6. Carry on with the fantasy and talk dirty if it helps to get you in the mood. Watching your partner get hard while their hands are tied will heighten the intensity of the moment.
  7. Slowly but surely, start to slide your hands to the inside of your thighs, push a finger or two into your wet slit, and start to rub your slit.
  8. Masturbate until you reach ecstasy. Let your partner enjoy every inch of how you bring yourself to orgasm. If you can show them confidently how you like to touch yourself, they will want to make you cum like that always.
Remember, it may take some women five minutes or some thirty minutes to cum. Do not rush the pleasure. the longer the wait the more intense the orgasm.