GIRL WITH A DIRTY MIND

Massage is a wonderful way to get close to your partner as well as supply an intimate foreplay session. Massage can be performed anywhere and can be as non-sexual or sexual as you both want to make it. Touch is a natural instinct. We all like to be touched by others in an intimate way. Massage is a wonderful way to ‘kink up’ the foreplay, touch your partner, and arouse all their senses.

Oil or lotions are perfect to use with massage. You do not even need to be an expert at massage. Use the basic effleurage techniques which are simply to run your hands up and down toward the lymph glands (in the armpits). Effleurage is a basic beginner massage technique that feels wonderful when performed by your partner.

There are a wide array of techniques available to de-stress the muscles in the body. One of them is to use double handed kneading on the back muscles, for instance. Just as it sounds place the hand on the back of wherever and place the other hand on top. This technique feels wonderful. The neck muscles hold in a lot of stress and tension so by squeezing them softly it helps to relax your partner. Stress can kill a sex drive so kill stress instead. Scalp massage is not for everyone but, performed gently with the fingers or nails is wonderful for de-stressing the body. The scalp is a wonderful erogenous zone that not everyone may know of. I discuss my hair pulling technique in my new book, The Sexual Mind: Guide to FFI Sex. I have always used it to seduce my prey, and it has never let me down.