Dec15

Do you have a natural Dirty Mind

by Girl With A Dirty Mind on December 15th, 2009 at 9:35 am
Posted In: Fantasy, Tips for a Hot Sex Life

Can you turn on your minxy side with a click of the fingers or does it require you to have five glasses of wine or beer beforehand? I used to think I needed booze for sexual confidence but now that I drive everywhere I now know I never needed it. The best thing about it…no more hangovers, oh how they used to destroy my Sundays.

Are you a natural with domination, text sex, cybersex, and phone sex or do you want some pointers?

Take control with domination

  • Surprise your lover with a sexy striptease or add sexy negligee/naked body before they arrive home. Mine is my naked body, lingerie is gonna come off anyway.
  • If they try and grab you this is when the handcuffs or scarf comes out. Tie their hands up and tease your body with your hands in front of their eyes. Christmas has come early for them or so they’ll believe.
  • The whole point of this domination session is to tell them who’s boss. If they try to touch you, whip their hands gently or do not let them join in when you decide to stroke yourself to ecstasy moaning your lover’s name.
Take control with Text Sex
  • Surprise your lover at an inconvenient time. I do not mean while driving I mean when they are at work or in an important meeting. Test their horny side to see how fast they respond.
  • Send them a short paragraph that will make them hard in seconds, for example: “I forgot to confess about my wet dream last night…me, you, and a bottle of oil.”  This is possible with men. They are very visual creatures and the image will send a signal to the brain which causes an instant erection. Better yet, instead of words, send a naked picture of yourself to surprise him and put a cherry on his day.
  • Get filthy. Let your inhibitions go and let them take control on his return home.
Take control with cybersex
  • Cybersex is easy. Simply mention that you’re wet and horny and men are putty in your hand. Do not send any pictures or dirty videos. Use the power of your mind and choice words to get him hard.
  • Take part in the fantasy. Set a date, let him take advantage of you, and visualise how much of a turn on that scene would be in reality.
  • Play along. Do not fake an orgasm, have a real one. Boy, does an orgasm make me smile. They are one of the best free things in this life, why would you want to fake that pleasure?
Take control with phone sex
  • Pull out your sexy voice and describe everything like in text sex and cybersex but over the phone.
  • Phone sex requires confidence. Say something that you would not normally consider and you only have to wait seconds for your partner to grow hard.
  • Become a dirty minx. Let your lover hear how juicy you are and moan not to fake it but because you love his descriptions and what he wants to do to you.
  • Get him so hot that he has no option but to climax over the phone. I love it when my K comes.