Love hurts. Real love has its peaks and troughs but how does one get over their lover when you feel like it is impossible that you will ever find anyone again or feel sexy?
Time is the healer. There are people out there who desire to be with someone so much that they neglect the place they really need to get content – in themselves. When you are content with yourself, sincerely, you send out a vibe to the universe that you do not require love, are content to live by yourself, but it is also an attractive trait that essentially ‘attracts’ a mate to yourself.
Have you ever been out simply to have fun, not to seek a partner, just for a laugh or out with friends. Have you been hit on when you’ve got a partner or if you’re happily content with yourself? If yes, then it is because you are happy and not asking for a partner but the energy with yourself is so compatible and friendly it is a magnet for attraction.
I know it is tough, especially when you desire to find someone after a breakup but find things you love, do them alone, and when you least think about it the right person will come along.
Also, ask the Universe for the ideal person. Describe how they will look, their personality, and most of all, how they make you feel. When you feel happy about your visualization, it makes it powerful. Law of Attraction is simply a waiting process.
Also, never try to force love. It will happen in mysterious ways. If you believe there is a person out there for you, keep up the visualization, let the manifestation go and remain patient. Another thing, constantly thinking about something usually causes the opposite to happen. When you want want want something, like a relationship, you may attract the wrong type of guy or someone desperate or needy like yourself. Feel happy in yourself, ask the Universe, forget, and be patient. The right partner will come along.