GIRL WITH A DIRTY MIND

Whether you are a sexual novice or someone who has had numerous sexual experiences, you will find the FFI approach to sex liberating, mind opening, and certain to increase the satisfaction of you and your partner’s lovemaking. This inventive approach taps the power of the mind to create and intensify the experience.

FFI stands for Fast, Frantic, and Intense. Fast refers to the speed at which you fall into sexual stimulation. The power of the mind, especially for women, makes the power of physical stimulation seem tiny. Yet pure physical stimulation is on what most people base their sex lives. Frantic is the mental surrender to the sexual experience, the adding of desire and need to build emotion and depth. The urge can take you like a sweeping tornado. Intense is the resultant increase in how ardent, extreme, eager, forceful, and satisfying your orgasms and experiences will become, building a bond between you.

Perhaps you saw a common thread in the last paragraph, the mind, mental stimulation. The engine that drives FFI sex is the mind, harnessing its stimulating power as compares to pure physical stimulation techniques. Yes, there are numerous physical techniques in this book, but they are designed in such a way to engage all the senses, lower inhibitions, raise confidence, and open the door to the mind.

Those using the suggestions and techniques in this guide will find you can unlock yourself to become more experimental, in control, and free to feel and express the joys of your lovemaking. By releasing your own sexual energy, you will compound your partner’s level of arousal, which in turn will transfer back to you in a magnifying cycle that will be Fast, Frantic, and Intense. This mental sexual partnership and mutual compounding arousal is the key to reaching the heightened states of FFI sex.

No one handed you a guide to sex when you reached puberty, so now here it is.

Along with a complete lack of instruction on how to operate your highly complex sexual machine, many of us were handed guilt, insecurities, inhibitions, misinformation, and moralizing that is counter to the nature of our bodies. Whereas FFI sex uses the power of the mind to enhance sexual experience, this mental “Baggage” works to demean or limit the sexual experience. An uninhibited mind will make FFI sex more intense and enjoyable. An inhibited mind has the most to gain from the FFI approach and will find it liberating, taking you to an entirely new space of experience when your body combines with your mind.

A key element of the FFI guide is the section on taking you from wherever it is you are now to FFI Sex. This chapter will give you tools you need to free yourself of mental “Baggage,” increase confidence, and set you on a liberated course to reach FFI orgasms.

The chapter on the rules of FFI will establish guidelines for you of the approaches to take and things to be certain to include in your lovemaking. These rules will help set the environment from which mental liberation can occur.

The section on Dos and Don’ts will help you avoid the common turn offs that may affect you and your partner while encouraging things that will help you enter states where your partner’s satisfaction will feed back to you in a building self feeding cycle, that once put in motion will take you to FFI and beyond.

The creative sections on unique and advanced techniques will help you take your lovemaking out of the ordinary right from the start. The affect will be to take your partner out of the day to day and let their creativity add to yours, making a new spontaneous experience they may take you both to places previously unknown. Sex is a team sport. Best results come from working together.

This should introduce you to FFI; spontaneous, creative, intense love making. If you want that animal attraction, ‘grrr I want you now’ type of sex, the tools are all here. The next step to greater sexual satisfaction is yours.

Why write this book? Well, after a bad break up in 2002 from whom I thought at the time was the love of my life, I believe it was a wakeup call to begin experimentation with sex. Before Jason, I had never been into sex, blow jobs, or masturbation, but all that changed after experiencing a few one-night stands. I realised that sex could be enjoyable and, with the right person and effort, the sex could become phenomenal, so I set out to seek sexual desire of all kinds. The reason I did not enjoy sex before was because it was routine and boring.

I have been single for a little over eight years. I do not crave sex because I have all the tools necessary to pleasure my own body in many ways.

Over the years, I have met some great lovers who were very willing to take me to the realms of desire that I craved, and I too in turn showed them my love of unselfish sex and giving, showing enthusiasm, and experimenting. The techniques and thoughts in this guide are from experience, and I want to share them with my readers, whether they are in a relationship or single.