Oct21
Have you ever pined after someone for weeks, even months, and they only need to say your name and you’re turned on? On the other hand, have you ever fancied someone physically, had a first date, and nothing quite sparks your mind or genitals into taking it further? That’s chemistry for you. The best sex exists when you share a special chemistry, and this cannot be forced either. I have been out with many attractive men, and many of them I did sleep with do not stick in my mind. I like to feel a mental, insanely attractive connection to someone, or else what’s the point!Chemistry cannot be forced either. You may have to wait months to find your perfect match, perhaps years, but the wait is worth its weight in gold. So what is chemistry? It’s an invisible energy connection that no scientist can decipher. Your pheromones may guide you to that special someone, or others believe that fate steps in! Fate is an illusion. You create your reality when your mind knows what it wants. Your thoughts create your reality, not fate! You will draw people into your life when you love yourself and emanate joy and happiness on a high vibration. You’ll know when you do find that perfect person. When you kiss, your genitals will spark for attention, and you may secrete lubrication, ready for intercourse. Men will likely harden instantly. You may find that normal conversation turns you on, even in the negative situations. The make-up sex with a chemically compatible partner is simply wonderful.
I think also with true chemistry, the amazing sex is always there deep in the subconscious. With some couples, the sex drive can diminish after time, but with the right person, it doesn’t have to, because every time you touch, your sexual chemistry keeps the relationship alive.
So if you’re with someone at the moment who doesn’t quite tickle your genitals into orgasm, ask yourself is the relationship forced in some way? The first kiss will tell you if you share chemistry. If you can kiss for hours without getting bored, that’s the sign of good chemistry. If you and your lover cannot keep your hands off each other, that’s a good sign too.
